Book Review: The Boy Who Changed the World

My thanks, once again, to my friends at Book Sneeze (Thomas Nelson Publishers) for providing me with a free copy of  The Boy Who Changed the World to review.

This is one of a pair of books by the author, Andy Andrews, following a very similar theme, both reviews will appear on the blog, hopefully if I get things right, on the same date, 7th Sept, at the request of the publishers although as I write this review (2nd Sept) I have not read the 2nd book so have some serious reading to do over the next week, I say serious but it actually doesn’t look that heavy a read.

Anyhow, both books are, from what I can tell very similar and have a very similar theme to them just this one is written as  a children’s story the other is for adults.

But enough on the other book I will say more once I have actually read it!

I read this book to my daughter, 9 y/o with Downs Syndrome, and she got really excited by it, so much so that it has quickly become her favourite read, its clearly designed to reach that kind of age of child, and perhaps younger, I guess that the average 9 y/o would be able to manage to read it, with some help, on their own, my daughter, due to her learning difficulties, cant read it but certainly enjoyed it being read to her.

the basic plot of the story is about how a young boys dream to help save lives gets fulfilled, in his adult life, and really shows how each one of us makes a difference in this world, just by doing what we are here to do, and we can not really guess at exactly what the results of our own actions, right here right now, will have on the lives of others in years, even perhaps generations, to come.

This book really does dare kids to believe that they could be that boy/girl who really could change the world, if they could only grasp hold of their significance and importance in life.

I personally found the message a challenge to me and am convinced that the depth of message would/will challenge most parents who read this to their kids as well as sow a seed in the heart of the kids themselves.

The book is beautifully illustrated throughout with paintings/drawings to fit in with the words and is beautifully presented, it would make an excellent gift to children (and their parents) and has space on the first page for writing the names of the recipient/giver on it, a bit like some ‘gift’ bibles have.

This book is obviously written by a Christian but its message transcends religion and would be suitable for people of any religion or none, it does not specifically mention God or the bible and I am convinced that no one could be offended at receiving a copy.

I would highly recommend this book and am convinced that it wont be long before it becomes rather tatty and dog eared in our house.

As I have said on here before I am a slow reader yet I found it a comfortable read for my daughters bedtime story, completing it in about 20 minutes, and that was with stopping to chat about the pictures and what we had read as we went on.

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Book Review: Missing Andy

This is the 2nd book from Author Lori Moore, who sent me these 2 books personally to review, for which I am very grateful.

this book, Missing Andy (The Journey from Grief to Joy) tells the story of grief from Lori’s own personal experience of losing her former husband at the age of 49, she has a unique and very different relationship dynamic, at the time that Andy passed away he and Lori had already divorced and indeed Lori had married her current husband, Michael.

You may think it rather unusual but up until shortly before Andy passed away Lori had a very good relationship with her ex husband, she considered him to be her best friend, but if it works for them who are we to criticise this? Certainly I know that it is perfectly feasible for a married person to have very good, best, friends of the opposite sex, most of my very close friends are women, indeed my best friend is my wife but the person I would consider to be 2nd best friend is also my wife’s best friend and a woman. So there is no way that I would want to pigeon-hole relationships, if you have already read Lori’s first book, then you will be aware of some of the dynamics at work in this relationship because she touches on it there, this book goes into far more detail.

This book, similar to her last one, will not take long to read, I sat down and read it in an hour and a half, in 1 sitting, and I am not, as I have already said, the fastest reader, so the time commitment to read this book is negligible, this makes it an excellent book for those who are not that into reading.

I was moved by the depth of feeling and the level to which Lori opened up in this book, I felt that I knew and understood Lori far better from having read this book than I did her first book, this is an excellent work covering the whole issue of grief and some of the dynamics involved, such as family & friends and their relationship to and understanding of the situation, I would highly recommend this book for anyone who has recently lost a loved one, especially if the loved one isn’t what some would consider to be close relatives, this book addresses the whole issue and problem that people consider unless your a close relative then you shouldn’t feel the loss too much, interesting when I know from my own life that some of my friends are closer to me than some of my own flesh & blood, so I would naturally miss these friends more than I might some of my relatives.

This is a book definitely written for the Christian and seeks to bring comfort to those who have lost a loved one through telling her own story, with much humour and blunt honest words, she doesn’t dress things up or pretend to be what/who she isn’t she tells it as it is, the good the bad and the ugly, I love this reality and honesty.

so in conclusion, a real book dealing with a real subject in an honest yet humourous way from a very unusual and different perspective.

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Book Review: From Zero to Christian in Just 35 Years

I was contacted out of the blue by Lori More, the author of From Zero to Christian in Just 35 Years having picked up my details from a website listing Book Review Bloggers, she asked if I would be prepared to review her books for her.

So she has sent me free review copies of both of her books, this is the first of them that I have now read. Many Thanks Lori for the opportunity to read your books and get to know you a bit better, both through the books and through contact on Twitter.

This book is very easy to read, in the sense that it is very thin, only 88 pages, and broken down into easily digestible chapters.

I am a slow reader but I think I could have read it in just a couple of evenings if I had tried hard enough. So what about the content? Well, I was touched and moved by what she had to say and share about her experiences, its a very moving testimony of God at work in and through her life, and one of the really challenging aspects of her testimony is the way that she has been able to turn her life around from a very rough and difficult start to managing to get senior managerial work and getting a degree, as a mature student, having had next to no qualifications on leaving school.

I enjoyed reading this book BUT did find it rather confusing at times, Lori seemed to jump about chronologically and thi left me pretty confused as to what happened when, there were also significant gaps on her testimony which left me wanting to ask her more about her life, especially her life before she was a Christian, as the holes left me somewhat confused, this beign said it was a good read and I took away some real lessons for myself, about who I am and who I am to be, where I am to turn for the answers and for my affirmation.

I would have loved a bit more of a logical chronological sequence to the book, this is not a simple ‘testimony’ book of before I was a Christian I was like this then I became a Christian and everything suddenly became right, she spoke very candidly about her struggles even once she had become a Christian and this was a real breath of fresh air for this kind of book, also, having said that there were gaps missing in the book and I was wanting more Lori did manage to avoid what is so often seen in books where people give their testimony of almost seeming to glorify in their past sins, Lori acknowledges her past and acknowledges what she has been through is not good then moves on.

Would I recommend the book? The answer would depend on what you were expecting from it, Yes I am sure that most Christians would get something out of this book, it is an easy read and has some real nuggets of truth within its covers so for a Christian read I would recommend it but…..

When I first read the back cover and looking at the book I had expected a testimony type book which would be suitable to pass onto non christians, think Run Baby Run or The Cross & Switchblade, I became a Christian through a Nicky Cruzz crusade so these 2 books were among my first Christian reads, this is what I kind of expected and I guess was disappointed that it didn’t meet my expectations, especially when I feel that Lori’s testimony could be a very powerful one for many non-Christians to read/hear. I think I will need to re-read this book before considering passing it onto any non-Christians but my gut feeling is that it is probably aimed more at a Christian readership than as an evangelistic type book.

All that being said, I particularly liked the thoughts to ponder at the end of each chapter and especially appreciated the last chapter, where Lori talks about what charms she would put on a charm bracelet, to represent something of her life, with God, as it is now, I wont spoil it for those who might like to read the book for themselves. I think that Lorri is the kind of person I would get on well with and feel that her book gives a real insight into who she is.

As I said at the beginning of this review Lori sent me 2 books I will be reading the second one shortly and will post a review once that is complete.

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Book Review: Friendship for Grownups

You will by now be well aware that I regularly receive free books to read and give an honest review on, this is one such book, I received from Thomas Nelson Publishers. the book is called: Friendship for Grown-Ups: What I Missed and Learned Along the Way by Lisa Whelchel.

As with so many of these books, it is an American book written by an American Christian Author but then what would be expected from an American Christian Publishing House?

Anyhow, the way these blog reviews work is the publishers list books they have for review, usually brand new just released, or pre-release, books, then as a blogger reviewer I can simply request copies of books that look interesting to me, so it is with this book, I signed up to be a reviewer and then waited for it to arrive.

I have to say I signed up to this book because the subject matter looked to be one that interested me and one I needed to explore, as I have some issues in that particular area, for a number of reasons I struggle with relationships/friendships. It was with some disappointment then that I read the cover page and inside sleeves (yes as with most books I get for review it is a hardback copy, never had so many hardback books in my life!) to find out that this book was really aimed at a female audience, it is written, as I already knew, by a female but very much with a  female audience in mind!
EEK, Now what? Well I had no real option, I still had to honour the commitment and read and review, I thought about asking Joy to do the review but then decided that was out of the question, there was no way I would get her to agree, for a numebr of reasons, so ball back in my court!

So I have now read the book and I have to say I thoroughly enjoyed it, the book is basically a bit about one area of Lisa’s life, Americans will be aware that she was a child star in a children’s TV series, so was a household name and one that many Americans of my age will have grown up with, but this early break into stardom wasn’t without its problems, it took its toll on Lisa and her ability to make ‘normal’ relationships and friendships.

All the way through the book I could see so much of myself and my own situation in the book, as well as indentifying people who were so similar to some of the ‘friends’ Lisa mad ealong the way as she made this painful and long journey of self discovery and building relationships on a more secure and healthy basis.

So even though this book was written primarily for a female audience I have received and benefited a lot from reading it, it has also been interesting because, as some of you will be aware, I am undergoing some counselling at the moment, as a result of Depression last year, and so many of the principles as well as much of the language used in this book are so similar to the things that my counsellor has been talking about, its really uncanny.

I think Lisa is well down a journey that I have not yet started walking, I think I am probably too vulnerable at the moment to go there, but a journey that I know I will need to make, in some way, over the coming months, a journey that includes and involves pain and healing as well as discovery and development.

So yes I think it was intended that I read this book, it was tough going in places but well worth the work.

So what are my thoughts? If there is a criticism of the book I think I would say that I struggled reading it with a whole part of Lisa’s life not being talked about, in the context of relationships to not talk at all about her relationship with her husband was really strange, I often felt there were gaps that I wanted filling in, but then perhaps that is because I am a man, and a husband? Not sure but certainly for me it left lots of questions and wondering about things, other than that I felt she struck the right balance between being honest, at times brutally honest, about where she was at, and her own failings and keeping some things unsaid because it wasn’t necessary to give the whole picture, Lisa is an excellent and honest writer, she pulls no punches and doesn’t try dressing things up what you get is the real Lisa warts and all and I for one like that honesty, but then that’s exactly what the book is about so what else would you expect?

I honestly dont think this book hould be marketed as being just for women, I think there are very strong and good principles that can be taken on board by men, I acknowledge that men have very different relationships with each other than women have with each other, and it is these difference that come into stark contrast when reading this book, I suspect that very few men would read it, but dont forget, if you get the hardback copy you can always slip off the cover and replace it with the cover of another, more manly, book. Like the Blokes Bible?

Anyhow, this book includes 3 appendices which are also very helpful, including a set of questions, by chapter, to facilitate group discussion & a list of helpful practical tips for growing friendships, to quote her opening paragraph to the practical tips: ‘I know that I sometimes read a book and thin, OK I know what do do but I don’t have a clue how to do it. It is my hope that God has spoken to you through my personal story and that he is already speaking into your heart about specific steps towards more intimate friendships. At the same time sometimes we need a friend to take our hand and walk beside us, step by step to get started on the journey. With this in mind I have created an appendix in more of a ‘how to’ format. I hope that it is a helpful reference for you as you take baby steps toward mature friendships.’ This appendix is again broken down by chapter.

I would strongly recommend this book for women who are struggling with issues of relationships, knowing how to have real meaningful relationships, as well as for Women’s study groups, I am sure that this book, along with the accompanying quesitons, would be a real aid to building strong and secure relationships with other women within a group study session, but then again who am I to make that assessment? After all I am a mere Man, I shall however be passing this book along to Joy for her to look at and see if she thinks it would be appropriate for the women’s group she is a part of.

I have been challenged by this book and would also recommend it as reading for any guys who are struggling in the area of relationship, as I said the principles and truths are, in many cases, transferable, and certainly the problems encountered are common regardless of gender.

So, go on give it a try, waht have you got to lose?

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lessons from a trapeze artist….

As many of you will know, from previous posts, I regularly receive books to read and review, one that I am currently reading (well nearly finished actually) at the moment is Friendship for Grown-Ups: What I Missed and Learned Along the Way by Lisa Whelchel has been a real challenge to me in places, but I don’t intend to go into too much detail on that right here and now, suffice to say a review will be forthcoming in probably about a week.

What I wanted to write about at the moment is a quote she puts in her book that’s obviously impacted her, she got it from Henri Nouwen in a book called Our Greatest Gift: A Meditation on Dying and Caring As you might have guessed I have been as impacted by this illustration as Lisa was so I have decided to dedicate a whole blog post to it.

I am sure it doesnt need any further explanation or clarification from me, it stands all by itself.

Henri had a conversation with a famous flying trapeze artist which went as follows:

One day, I was sitting with Rodleigh, the leader of the troupe, in his caravan, talking about flying. He said ‘as a flyer, I must have complete trust in my catcher. The public might think that I am the great star of the trapeze, but the real star is Joe, my catcher. He has to be there for me with split second precision and grab me out of the air as I come to him in the long jump.’ ‘How does it work?’ I asked. ‘The secret’ Rodleigh said, ‘is that the flyer does nothing, the catcher does everything. When I fly to Joe, I have to simply stretch out my arms and hands and wait for him to catch me and pull me safely over the apron behind the catchbar.’

‘You do nothing!’ I said surprised. ‘Nothing’ Rodleigh repeated. ‘The worst thing the flyer can do is to try catching the catcher. I am not supposed to catch Joe it is Joe’s task to catch me. If I grab Joe’s wrists, I might break them or he might break mine, and that would be the end for both of us. A flyer must fly and a catcher must catch, and the flyer must trust, with outstretched arms, that his catcher will be there for him.’

nuff said!

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Book Review: The Digital Photography Books (Vol 2 & 3)

I received vol 1 of his 3 vol series from a  friend for Christmas and thoroughly enjoyed reading it so decided to purchase the other 2 volumes myself.

as usual you can get straight to the Amazon links for these products here:

Peachpit Press – The Digital Photography Book, Volume 2, Softcover Book by Scott Kelby

Peachpit Press – The Digital Photography Book, Volume 3, Softcover Book by Scott Kelby

or to buy all 3 copies in a boxed set:

Scott Kelby’s Digital Photography Boxed Set, Volumes 1, 2, and 3

You can read my review of Vol 1 here. it is worth a read if you are interested in this kind of book as I don’t intend to repeat much of what I wrote there and there are so many similarities between all 3 books.

Having read Vol 2 I went straight on to read Vol 3 and thought it might be simpler to review them both together, as there is not a lot to say that is distinct between the 2.

Anyhow, on the whole these books were as excellent as the first one and well worth the investment, I have learnt a fair bit by reading these books.

The Authors Humour has not improved at all and he still comes out with the same kinds of humour which some might find off putting but I don’t mind at all, you just know it is coming so you brace yourself for it.

The only issue for me is that in these 2 volumes, he seems to contradict what he says in the first volume for example in Vol 1 he goes to great length to say that you should ALWAYS shoot on a tripod then in these 2 volumes he keeps talking about how to shoot hand hold, OK I get that he cant assume everyone would follow the tripod advice but reading Vols 2 & 3 you would not get the impression that shooting on a tripod was a big deal at all.

The other issue where he is so clearly contradicting himself is in his first volume he gives a very simple recipe for portraits, saying that you should always shoot at F11 (Aperture setting) and use a short zoom length between 85mm & 100mm but in the subsequent books he talks about shooting at all sorts of different focal lengths and Aperture sizes, including shooting as high as 200mm.

As with Vol 1 the authors philosophy is very simple, just tell you how to achieve the look your after with just a little background info to help you but not confusing or bombarding you with all the technical stuff, this is refreshing and makes for an easier read for the novie photographer.

These books, taken together, add up to a valuable resource for anyone who wants to achieve better photographs from their dSLR camera, ince again he focuses primarily on Nikon & Cannon cameras inthe technical how to bits but you can adapt those bits to your own particular camera if needed.

Anyone reading these books get first hand help and advice from a real expert in the field and one who knows his stuff and knows how to put it across in print in a way that even the novice can understand, as he himself says, it is like your out on a photo shoot with him at your side guiding you through.

I am sure that I will be refering back to these books time and again over the comming years as I seek to improve my own photography skills.

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Book Review: NLT Devotions for Lent, from the Mosaic Bible.

My thanks, once again, to Tyndale for provision of not just 1 but a whole pack of 10 copies of Devotions for Lent (Holy Bible: Mosaic) free of charge, for me to review the product.

Well, this may just about be the fastest time from receipt of item to posting the review, basically I opened the pack about an hour ago and am now ready to review.

but first a little background. Some of you may recall my review back in November, of the Mosaic Bible, the review can be read here well hot on the heels of this successful, and in my mind brilliant, product, Tyndale have now published a little booklet with devotions for lent, what I had not realised before signing up to review the product was that it is essentially the whole of the Mosaic devotional material for Lent, with nothing added and nothing taken away, in a pocket sized booklet, complete with excerpts from the relevant scripture readings for the weeks.

So what you get is a weeks worth of devotional material to use and study through the week as you see fit, the reason why I don’t need to spend too long on the material is simply because I am already doing it using My Mosaic Bible.

So, my thoughts, well obviously if, like me, you already posses a copy of the Mosaic Bible this is not worth buying, its not expensive but totally unnecessary as there is nothing that you don’t get with the mosaic bible.

That said, the material is as good as the Mosaic Bible material, I am still enjoying doing the Mosaic Devotional material  each week and this material will be no exception.

But, if you have heard about the Mosaic Bible and have been wondering whether it is the right product for you then this is an easy, and cheap, way of finding out whether you will get anything out of the Mosaic Bible, due to the very unique and different way the material is laid out I am not convinced that everyone will enjoy the Mosaic Bible as much as I have, so being able to spend £2.50 on this little booklet to find out whether you would enjoy the mosaic is an excellent option, they do packs of 10 for, available on Amazon for about £15 which is worth considering if you want to try this material with a small group or church Lent Meditations.

The scripture portions have, as you would expect, been taken from the New Living Translation, which is a huge plus to me as this is still my favourite version of the bible and I am gradually working on others in the church to try and convert them over to this particular version of the bible.

As an aside here, if you are in a Christian Bookshop some time, have a look at the bibles and compare the prices of the NLT with other translations, I think you will be shocked and surprised at how much cheaper the NLT is than some other versions, no names mentioned but the version which sells the most copies worldwide is probably just about the most expensive! This alone is one good reason to switch versions.

SO, is there much else to say? other than I love the material, well yes, in the Mosaic Bible one of the features I liked was that the scripture section, the actual bible was left unadulterated, they didn’t mix the devotional material with the scripture text, this made it clear to see what was Gods words and what was Mans words.

Well, in this booklet they have kept the same format, presumably for the same reason as above, to avoid mixing up Gods word and Mans word, in the front, the devotional material, you just find a reference, with page No’s to the scripture portions for the week, I can understand the reason for this, if it is as above, but as it is only scripture portions rather than the whole bible I would have preferred the scripture portions to have been placed in with the rest of the devotional material for the week, would have been a bit easier to use and handle, they could have differentiated scripture with different colours or different fonts, but that’s my single biggest criticism of the material.

the second criticism is the font, they have used a very small font and this couple with some of the fanct fotn styles used as part of the Mosaic trademark makes it difficult to read in places, unless my eysight is failing, which at my age is a distinct possibility, I think that they could consider giving awy magnifying glasses with this product but it might put the cost up a bit.

The other criticism I have is more  a criticism of the Tyndale organisation, they only advertised this particular product as being available for review at the beginning of Lent Week 1, and sent the product out in Lent Week 2, this is lousy timing, having now received the material, just in time to start lent week 3, if I had not been using the material already it would have been at least another week before I got My review up and published, so by the time that you, my reading audience were reading this blog post and had got yourself organised to buy the lent material it would be Easter.

It would have been so much more useful to have got the material to reviewers in time to put reviews up before Lent begun, that being said, what I will probably do is to repeat this blog post next year, just before lent, in order to give people a reminder about getting the material for lent, if I remember that is!

Anyhow, just about the shortest book review ever for me, mind you its a short little booklet so that figures!

I now have 9 copies available to give away, I am not keeping one myself but Joy has taken one, if anyone is interested in any let me know, preference will be given to anyone at our church, especially if they are thinking of using this in a Connect group, probably next year? Just get in touch and let me know how many you might want.

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Book Review: The Power of respect

My thanks to Thomas Nelson, the publishers of The Power of Respect: Benefit from the Most Forgotten Element of Success, by Deborah Norville. For giving me the opportunity of reviewing a free copy of this book.

This book attracted my attention simple because of the title, everyone but everyone seems to think they have the monopoly on respect and that it is others who show a lack of respect in whatever area of life it happens to be, one of my pet issues is the way that some of the older generation seem to think that ‘the younger folk of today have no respect’ now whereas this MAY be true it is equally true that respect is earned and not automatic, therefore we have to ask why don’t young people respect people.

I found it intriguing a few years ago in a Q&A session we were asked to name some causes for a breakdown in the fabric of society and I said ‘lack of respect’ the person conducting the session immediately talked about the lack of respect youngsters have for older folk, whereas I had meant a general lack of respect from one human being to another, not specifically young towards old but the other way around too. I felt that his response was actually disrespectful to younger folk in itself.

It is also worth noting that my experience, with having my son in a wheelchair, is that it is, by and large, younger people who are more likely to hold doors open or leap up to help when they see us struggling, not exclusively but certainly we have had more offers of help from younger people, youths, than we have those of my parents kind of age. That is not to criticise my parents generation just to say that our younger folk are not as bad as some might make them out to be, especially when they are treated with respect.

Anyhow, that brings us neatly back on track with this book, the author, Deborah Norville, says several times in this book, that she considers the power of respect to be instrumental and powerful in many areas of life.

to quote from the inside sleeve of the book:

Want to get the respect you deserve? Try giving it.
Respect is power – and not just the respect you receive. The respect you give to others i vital to success in every area of life.
In Business:
  • Higher Sales
  • Lower employee turnover
  • Less exposure to lawsuits
At home:
  • A stronger marriage
  • Healthier family dynamics
  • More polite children
In your personal life:
  • More self respect and confidence
  • Closer friendships
  • Higher standing in the community

Norville sets out a whole host of work and personal circumstances where the power of respect can be used to powerfully influence the situations and environments in which you find yourself, she cites many examples and testimonies of people who have seen the transformation in work places, in schools & colleges, in personal lives, that can be achieve through exercising the power of respect.

Much of what she talks about I would agree with wholeheartedly although I would not have necessarily considered it to be respect, but she is right, in that if we as human beings had more respect for other human beings the world would be a lot nicer place.

I would certainly recommend this book for anyone who finds themselves in a difficult or stressful situation, where there seems to be a lack of respect, in their own personal or work situation, as it has some very important and powerful principles to impart the reader.

Although this book is published by a Christian publishing house it is not a specifically christian book and people of any faith, or none, would be equally comfortable reading it and get much from it.

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Book Review: The Busy Christians guide to busyness.

This is the third in my trilogy of book reviews, it is actually the book I read first but have decided to review last.

I wasn’t sure whether or not to actually do this review, for reasons that might become clear as you read the review, but as I have made a decision to generally review books then I ought to be consistent.

This book, The Busy Christian’s Guide to Busyness by Tim Chester, was recommended reading at a conference I was at in November, so I ordered it there, and also came as recommended reading for an Administrators Training course I am undertaking at the moment, although for the life of me I don’t know why they recommended it!

The book isn’t what the title might lead you to expect, it isn’t about how to organise your life and workflow to achieve things and reduce your stress load.

Whereas this book has a lot of very good points I did find the author extremely judgemental in his attitude, essentially implying that anyone who is over work is because they have a desire to feel important and needed, this simply is NOT the case!

In one section the author suggests that in the UK there is no excuse for anyone to be working more than 48 Hours as there is legislation that prevents employers from forcing you to work more than that, whereas he is correct to say there is such legislation in place he is pretty naive if he believes this is effective in allowing people free choice about working over that number of hours, currently it is possible for you to sign away your rights to a maximum 48 Hour week by writing a letter to that effect and my experience, which is not uncommon, was that I was given a letter to sign my rights away along with my contract of employment, unsigned at this point, on starting a new job, the clear inference, you sign away your rights or you don’t stay!

Also, the author suggests that the fact that people have to work long hours to keep things running suggests that they don’t have enough faith in God, this again is simply untrue, I used to be a Transport Manager and in a very cut throat business, in order to make the transport department profitable we had to operate with the bare minimum of staff in the office, this meant that we ALL had to work jolly hard to make sure that things kept running and we all, including the drivers working for us, remained in a job. For me, as a Christian, to have suggested that I wasn’t going to pull my own weight as I was going to trust God for the results would have been a rather ineffective witness to the people who I worked with.

I had, at some points, the livelihood of up to 40 staff in my responsibility and it wasn’t showing a lack of faith in God, or me wanting to ‘be their saviour’ as he suggests in another part of his book, that kept me working hard and long.

Now, I work in a much less pressured job, having been able to take a lower paid job, as a necessity as we have 2 children with disability, but the main reason why I have been able to make this move is because we have addition benefits, around the fact that they are adopted, which help to replace the income I have lost.

To suggest that others could do the same is pretty naive as finances are not exactly favourable when you take such a drastic pay cut! And it’s not about having to downsize and live in a smaller house, go for a cheaper car and do away with the 2 foreign holidays a year, we have none of those although the house we live in is a very expensive one it is a bungalow and barely meets the needs of our family, we have had to move into a poorer area to find something that we can afford that meets our needs, and even so are sinking huge amounts each month into a mortgage, so don’t even suggest that people can make do with a smaller house etc we certainly cold NOT afford the very basic level of standard of living we have currently had it not been for the sizeable adoption allowances we receive, I would therefore have been stuck in a senior management role that created a huge amount of stress and work, this is the reality for millions of people in the UK.

Also, the author suggests at another point that it might be better for people to downsize as a way of being able to reach out into needy areas of society but this is to suggest that the rich and well off don’t need Christ!

I had a very good friend who was a multi millionaire, worked very hard and had a very strong faith, would trust God for anything, sadly no longer with us as he has gone to glory, thanks to Cancer, but anyhow, he had such a huge impact on the business community and the fact that there were several hundred people, many from the business world, most of whom were extremely well off self made people, at his funeral, is a testimony to the way in which he reached into the higher levels of society, I know that he was responsible for some pretty influential people coming to know the Lord, to suggest to him that he should downsize and make do with less would be to take him out of his very strong sphere of influence, where he was able to do so much good.

Anyhow, there are my main thoughts on this book, it was interesting to read and there are some good bits but these are clouded by the judgmental attitude that comes across so strongly in the book, that comes from someone who, from what I have been able to find out about him, has spent most of his life in academic circles, in a very privileged situation and doesn’t have to live in the real world, never mind the fact that he is also earning significant amounts of money so is not in a good position to suggest that people are not as hard up as they make out to be or that they don’t have to work long hours to make ends meet or achieve even a basic standard of living.

So, in short, I am not sure why this book is recommended reading, I have read it and would suggest that you don’t bother wasting your money, and time, on it.

If anyone wants to know why most of my book reviews are positive, its because generally I choose books that I am fairly certain I will enjoy, this was the exception as it was recomended reading from a course so I had to read it really.

Of course, as always, people have a right to reply so if yuo have a different view/experience/understanding of the book feel free to comment on it here.

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Book Review: Who Moved MY Cheese?

This is the second of 3 book reviews that I am currently planning on doing, this book ‘Who Moved My Cheese?: An Amazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and in Your Life?’ was written by Dr Spencer Johnson.

I picked up on this book through another blog I was reading but I can’t remember for the life of me whose blog it was and I haven’t been able to locate the post to give them credit, so if that’s you I am sorry, let me know and I will put a link back to your blog here. I was so struck by the concept of the book that I decide I must get hold of a copy and read it myself.

The book is essentially a parable, one that Dr Johnson came up with in his own head to help him deal with change in his own life and was passed on by word of mouth to several of his close, and extended circles of friends.

The book is billed as ‘One of the most successful business books ever’

The book itself is a rather strange one to be considered a business book, as it is essentially a make believe story, but it really can change how you think and indeed has been used with whole companies to change the atmosphere and culture of a whole workplace.

This book won’t take much of your time, it’s very thin, only 95 pages, and has got large print and lots of spaces, I am a slow reader yet managed to read this book in about an hour and a half, so I guess that it would be possible to read it in an hour if you tried hard enough.

The story centres around 2 mice, called Sniff & Scurry & 2 mice sized humans called Hem & Haw, who live in one of those labyrinth type mice cages, essentially it is the story of how they found contentment and security in a whole pile of cheese in a feeding station then the cheese ran out. The story then unfolds around the way they dealt with this change, with the mice immediately being prepared to run off in search of new cheese and the humans throwing a bit of a pity party and not wanting to go off looking for cheese. Expecting that the cheese will come back again, the parallel to today’s business world is pretty powerful.

The story goes on further as Haw eventually decides that he ought to go looking for new cheese and along the way learns a lot about himself, but he does eventually find the new cheese, the story ends rather curiously on a bit of a cliff hanger, as Haw & the Mice are enjoying the new cheese and then there are footsteps that could be Hem finding his way there as well but we don’t actually get to find out whether or not it was him! Leaves big question, did Hem leave the place of the old cheese, did he manage to find his way to the new cheese? Had he learnt anything along the way?

This story is a great read and has some real deep truths and hidden nuggets if you are prepared to read it with an open mind, at its base level it’s an amusing story that you could even read to young children and they would appreciate it, but it is also a very sophisticated and in-depth discussion on the need to foster a culture of embracing change and turning change to your advantage.

There is so much I could say but if I did it would spoil the book for you.

I would encourage anyone to read this whether you are a business person, sales rep, housewife, or whatever role you play in life, this will help you to think about how you relate to a changing world around you, whether that be change in your work environment, changes to your company’s product range, changing demands on you at home, or wherever the change occurs.

In today’s world we are seeing changes going on all around us at an incredible rate, especially with the continual development of emerging technologies, how we react to this change is key to whether we succeed in life or merely survive, or even worse, admit defeat.

The changing technology has had a dramatic impact on so much of our lives like, how we buy our products, how we pick up our news, how we relate to people, how we keep in touch and form our opinions, those who are ready for change will be able to take advantage of this by using new techniques to market themselves, re-invent their product range to encompass new technologies, take advantage of the phenomena of social networks, engage with customers, new and old. And that’s only talking about changes that have already taken place in the past few years.

Who knows whether there is another new BIG shift on its way, are we, are you prepared to keep an eye on future developments and take advantage of these changes to build your business? If not your likely to find yourself struggling and this book is a must read for you.

I don’t find change as difficult as many people, I am pretty ready to accept change but I still got a lot out of reading this book and want/need to go back and read it again at some stage.

So whether you find change easy or difficult this is a good read, even if you get nothing much out of it its certainly an amusing story that you could read to your children or grand children but I hope that it will be more than that and becomes something that you can use to leverage your own skills in adapting to change and an ever moving world.

This is the second of 3 book reviews that I am currently planning on doing, this book ‘Who Moved My Cheese?’ was written by Dr Spencer Johnson.

I picked up on this book through another blog I was reading but I can’t remember for the life of me whose blog it was and I haven’t been able to locate the post to give them credit, so if that’s you I am sorry, let me know and I will put a link back to your blog here.

The book is essentially a parable, one that Dr Johnson came up with in his own head to help him deal with change in his own life and was passed on by word of mouth to several of his close, and extended circles of friends.

The book is billed as ‘One of the most successful business books ever’

And is subtitled ‘An amazing way to deal with change in your work and in your life’

The book itself is a rather strange one to be considered a business book, as it is essentially a make believe story, but it really can change how you think and indeed has been used with whole companies to change the atmosphere and culture of a whole workplace.

This book won’t take much of your time, it’s very thin, only 95 pages, and has got large print and lots of spaces, I am a slow reader yet managed to read this book in about an hour and a half, so I guess that it would be possible to read it in an hour if you tried hard enough.

The story centres around 2 mice, called Sniff & Scurry & 2 mice sized humans called Hem & Haw, who live in one of those labyrinth type mice cages, essentially it is the story of how they found contentment and security in a whole pile of cheese in a feeding station then the cheese ran out. The story then unfolds around the way they dealt with this change, with the mice immediately being prepared to run off in search of new cheese and the humans throwing a bit of a pity party and not wanting to go off looking for cheese. Expecting that the cheese will come back again, the parallel to today’s business world is pretty powerful.

The story goes on further as Haw eventually decides that he ought to go looking for new cheese and along the way learns a lot about himself, but he does eventually find the new cheese, the story ends rather curiously on a bit of a cliff hanger, as Haw & the Mice are enjoying the new cheese and then there are footsteps that could be Hem finding his way there as well but we don’t actually get to find out whether or not it was him! Leaves big question, did Hem leave the place of the old cheese, did he manage to find his way to the new cheese? Had he learnt anything along the way?

This story is a great read and has some real deep truths and hidden nuggets if you are prepared to read it with an open mind, at its base level it’s an amusing story that you could even read to young children and they would appreciate it, but it is also a very sophisticated and in-depth discussion on the need to foster a culture of embracing change and turning change to your advantage.

There is so much I could say but if I did it would spoil the book for you.

I would encourage anyone to read this whether you are a business person, sales rep, housewife, or whatever role you play in life, this will help you to think about how you relate to a changing world around you, whether that be change in your work environment, changes to your company’s product range, changing demands on you at home, or wherever the change occurs.

In today’s world we are seeing changes going on all around us at an incredible rate, especially with the continual development of emerging technologies, how we react to this change is key to whether we succeed in life or merely survive, or even worse, admit defeat.

The changing technology has had a dramatic impact on so much of our lives like, how we buy our products, how we pick up our news, how we relate to people, how we keep in touch and form our opinions, those who are ready for change will be able to take advantage of this by using new techniques to market themselves, re-invent their product range to encompass new technologies, take advantage of the phenomena of social networks, engage with customers, new and old. And that’s only talking about changes that have already taken place in the past few years.

Who knows whether there is another new BIG shift on its way, are we, are you prepared to keep an eye on future developments and take advantage of these changes to build your business? If not your likely to find yourself struggling and this book is a must read for you.

I don’t find change as difficult as many people, I am pretty ready to accept change but I still got a lot out of reading this book and want/need to go back and read it again at some stage.

So whether you find change easy or difficult this is a good read, even if you get nothing much out of it its certainly an amusing story that you could read to your children or grand children but I hope that it will be more than that and becomes something that you can use to leverage your own skills in adapting to change and an ever moving world.

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